Thursday, December 27, 2012

bedroom eyes

Since the power was out when we woke up this morning, thanks to the latest in a string of almost weekly horrible storms, Pablo and I kind of cuddled up and stayed in bed.  He was cold, so he got into his hoodie.


I like how it makes his mane look thicker.  He's a real hunk, and for a dog of diminutive stature, he puts out a lot of heat, which was greatly appreciated as the temperature in the house fell into the low 50s. 

Once I got out of bed to pace around fretting, tho, he took cover, literally.


Can't say I blame him.  Fortunately, the power came back on just before 11 am, so we turned up the heat and got back to what passes as "normal" anymore. 

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Christmas tradition beats Sandy in Sea Bright

There's an odd tradition here in Sea Bright, every Christmas morning the volunteer fire department visits the entire town, each nook and cranny, red lights and sirens and airhorns blaring, with Santa riding atop the hook and ladder truck.  In seasons past, they used to commence this racket at 7am, surely waking (or scaring) every last resident out of their long winter's nap. 

Today at least they were nice enough to wait until 9am to start.  But here they are again, as usual, maybe a bit slimmer in ranks (I didn't see any of the usual reindeer-clad members arrayed on the ladder), but with Reed Murphy dressed as Santa, he who was of questionable ability as a council member, but proved his worth in disaster management these past two months.

It's a sad statement that, of the 1400-some residents of the town, only maybe 100 or so are currently able to live here, the rest having been torn from their homes by the storm.  Or rather, their homes having been torn from them, in the most literal sense of the word.  Still, tradition can bind wounds that seem unhealable.  It's nice to know that someone is thinking "normal" and making the regular events that mark time here happen more or less according to schedule, in spite of all we've been through.  And thanks for the late start, I appreciate the extra couple hours of sleep!

Saturday, December 22, 2012

what a nice gift!

Picked up my box mail this morning, and in it was the season brochure for the Salzburg Fesitval.  In that is a video about El Sistema.  Very cool, nicely done film, really makes one wonder how they manage to run such a beautiful program there, where it seems everyone is horribly poor (at least in a financial sense), while we in the US, who to a large degree have more money than we know what to do with (especially the people who make these decisions), don't want to put forward a penny for arts and music education.  I suppose we'd rather spend our money on guns. 

Something is seriously wrong with this country - the US, I mean.  Granted, Venezuela has a lot wrong as well.  But at least there are people in Venezuela who are trying from the ground up to make things better for everyone.  Here, they just try to make things better for themselves, to hell with everyone else, especially the less financially endowed among us.

My political statement of the month.  Don't mind me, I'm feeling particularly disenfranchised at the moment.


Friday, December 21, 2012

I can't resist this one

I needed a good laugh today, and here it is.  I guess I'm still a sucker for cat jokes.  Relatively harmless, right?


Make sure your sound is turned on, the voices are the best part.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Year end contribution time?

Take a look at Sea Bright Rising:

http://seabrightrising.org/


Monday, December 17, 2012

almost forgot

I was going to post a picture of my Christmas lights.  Nothing fancy, but considering this is the first time I've had them here, ever....


They're on my miracle deck - it's a miracle the deck didn't tear off and float away in the storm.  Maybe next year I can put some upstairs, too.

I ought to also mention, the water at its highest was lapping over the deck floor.


ups and downs

Someone asked me the other day how I'm doing, really, since I sounded down whereas the last communication I'd had with this person sounded more up.  Well, this is how it is - it goes up and down.  I'm thinking not of the yo-yo variety, more like a carousel horse. 

One of the ups right now is, the roofer is ready to do the roof.  The associated down is, it has to stop raining for a couple of days for him to do it. 

I've got someone lined up to de-mold the attic where the roof was leaking.  But the roof has to get done first.  See above.

The same person suggested putting plastic over the missing ceiling to cut the draft, until the ceiling is ready to be replaced.  See two items above.

My Christmas lights look neat on the back deck.  They make me smile.

The small tree I had cut down a couple of weeks ago so it wouldn't be in the way of workers needing to use the crawlspace access hatch is still here, the trash people refused to pick it up.  They also refused to take my can of regular household trash, because it is near the tree pieces.  Ups and downs.

Pablo and I went for a walk on the beach Saturday afternoon, and met a man who was walking with a German Shepherd and a wolf.  Yes, a real wolf.  We got to meet her face to face, she liked me, she also liked Pablo, and he actually didn't try anything frisky with her.  Those blue eyes are amazing, I could feel her soul touching mine.

As we left the beach, I noticed smoke coming from a house where I knew noone has been since the storm.  We went over there, hoping it wasn't a fire.  It wasn't, thank goodness, but we stopped to talk to the owner of the house, who has been staying with friends somewhere else.  My mother knows her, they talk a lot about plants and stuff.  She knows Pablo.  While her house wasn't on fire, it got washed thru by the storm, several feet of water inside (it's a one-story, so it destroyed everything), and it looks as though it's been knocked slightly off the foundation.  Maybe a few inches.  Enough to present a serious problem.  So aside from losing the contents, and the new kitchen and bathroom she'd had done last summer, and the garage (which had a guest suite and a lot of stuff in it), the whole house, which is a lovely cedar bungalow, is in danger.  Probably fixable, but definitely expensive. 

So yes, my mood does tend to swing just a bit, now and then. 

Another issue has to do with my garage door.  It no longer opens.  There's no other way to get into the garage.  So far none of the contractors I've spoken with on other issues does garage doors.  The people I had do the garage door across the street, when I owned that house, too, were so bad I hope I never even see them again, much less want to hire them. 

Not a crisis, per se, but if it snows I'm in trouble, my snow shovel is inside there.  I hear it's supposed to snow next week.  If anyone is listening, please, we do not need a white Christmas this year.  Please cancel the snow, or even better, donate it to someone with a ski slope, so they can have a better season.

The post office is now delivering mail here.  So I don't have to go once or twice a week to pick things up.  That's a good thing, but I think I'll miss seeing people who live here but can't right now, because their houses are wrecked, who I would run into on line at the post office.  It was a good community type thing, picking up the mail.  We don't have too many of those opportunities anymore, to just meet up with and talk to people who live nearby.  You'd get a sense of being in this together with a lot of other folk, which you don't have when you're alone and trying to put your house back together.

Ups and downs.  Yeah.  Lots of those.

Friday, December 14, 2012

the beach today

The other day we found a place where one can get (with a bit of climbing) onto the beach.  Mind you, there used to be stairways over the seawall.  Most of those are history; the ones that still seem to be there on the street side have nothing at all on the beach side, so while you can with hazard get up onto the seawall, you can't get off the wall onto the beach.  Unless you're a fisherman, those guys are like mountain goats, they climb up the rocks and down the other side.  I couldn't do that even when I was a kid, nevermind now.

Anyhow, there's a spot on the north end where the sand movers made a sand trail up the wall with the sand they moved off Ocean Ave, with a large plateau on the beach, from which it is possible to get down to sea level.  Pablo and I went over this morning, he really wanted to go and practically dragged me up and over.  Here's what our beach looks like today.  This is at low tide, the tide looked like it was starting to come in.

Looking north towards NYC - the ramp you see is part of the Highlands Bridge, and the road going up into Sandy Hook, which is closed for the foreseeable future.  The dark area to the left indicates where high tide reaches, so where I was standing is under water at high tide.

Looking south.  There used to be dunes and plants and stuff.  Now it's just sand, but at least there's sand.  We could have water right up to the seawall, but thank goodness we don't.



Aside from the total loss of our dunes, there's really at low tide only about half the beach we used to have, and less than half again of that when the tide is in.

I talk to people everywhere, it's a genetic thing, I think.  And it seems like people here are getting past the initial grief and shock, and into the acceptance and moving on phase.  Myself, I'm into the 'why can't I get an electrician to actually show up' phase, which goes with the 'OMG I can't even get an a/c contractor out to look at the project until the end of January' syndrome.

I think the roofer might be able to get here in a couple of weeks; until then, if it rains, I need an umbrella in the living room.  I'm considering installing a water feature instead of replacing the roof again, it could fill itself with rainwater and have a fountain and some sort of nymph or something as decor.  Maybe a mermaid theme.  Or orcas, or dolphins....too many choices.  This isn't the first time I've had this idea, nor is it the first time I'm totally replacing the roof - the one that's on there now is only 5 or 6 years old.  It looks good, but it doesn't keep the rain out of the house.  Fail.

One of the guys I ran into at the post office today said that only 10% of the people who live in town are actually living here now.  The ones who are here are trying to cheer things up a tad by putting up Christmas lights and such.  One house closer to downtown has Christmas lights on their storage cube, which is sitting in the front yard, apparently holding stuff salvaged from inside the house while the inside is gutted and reconstructed.  If I can find a way to get a picture of it without getting arrested for breaking curfew, I'll post it here.  Curfew is 5pm - 7am, until further notice.  I have a feeling further notice isn't going to happen any time soon.

 The good thing is, most of the major garbage has been picked up.  We only have left a few odds and ends, mainly tvs and other hazardous materials which require separate disposal.  Supposedly those will be picked up at some point, but I guess it's not a high priority.

While we still had the 'pieces of your house' trash all over the place, I got this picture, which kind of says it all:




Monday, December 10, 2012

landfillharmonic

This is amazing, and inspiring!  For those of us at the Jersey Shore who are working to rebuild our lives, these people can be an example of what can be accomplished when everything around you is trash.


Where there is music, there is life!  Thanks to Jose for sharing this!

Sunday, December 9, 2012

can we be done yet????

Not only did it rain in the living room Friday night, today the sewer backup reached into my house and created another mess I really didn't need to deal with.

So why does a sewer backup only happen on a Sunday????  Never happens during the day, during the week.  Always at premium rates time.  Can't wait for the bill for this one.  Ouch.


Monday, December 3, 2012

too funny for words?


They're kidding, right????  Do they have Chanukah lobsters over in the seafood department, too?

Tho maybe it's not so funny.  Ignorance isn't funny.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

help needed for music program!

This article just about ripped my heart out this morning.  Maybe some of you reading this can lend a hand?

http://matawan-aberdeen.patch.com/announcements/a-drive-to-re-build-a-school-band-in-union-beach-643f5378

 If you can't click on it, here's the content:

Help Rebuild the Union Beach Memorial School Band


Union Beach Memorial School was devastated by Hurricane Sandy, and all the band instruments and sheet music were destroyed.
Unlike many wealthier school districts whose music programs have been eliminated due to a budget crunch, Memorial School has managed to maintain their program.
In this town where many of the students' homes have been destroyed, the children are looking forward to playing a Winter Concert.  These kids need a break and some joy at holiday time. Please consider donating a playable instrument you no longer use or one that your kids have outgrown.
Instruments can be dropped off at the Union Beach Board of Education Office, 1207 Florence Ave., Union Beach.
They can also be mailed to that address to the attention of  M. Metz, Music Teacher.  If you will include your name and address with your donation, you will be sent a receipt for tax purposes.
Donations of Gift Cards will also will be appreciated for purchasing what is not donated.  They can be mailed to the same address.
Here is a list of the instruments needed:
2 Tenor Drums
4 Snare Drums
1 Tama Hi Hat 10 Flutes 10 Clarinets
1 Bass Clarinet
8 Alto Saxes
1 Tenor Sax
6 Trumpets
4 Trombones
1 Baritone Horn
For questions and more info, please contact me at 732-583-4959, or  RConte9@verizon.net.  Please spread the word to friends and post this on your Facebook page.
Thank you very much.
Rosemary Conte